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Truth about my wife and the neighbor comes out Until a year ago we lived in a high rise building. Our next door neighbor was a single man who everyone knew to be gay. He was also the condo board president. I work but my wife and he were at home. My wife was getting more and more cozy with him, spending time at him apartment, getting drunk with him, etc. I objected but wasn't too worried because he was gay. Once when all three of us were together I said, "I trust her - I'm not worried" and he said with a smile, "You should be worried." Another time he asked me if my wife "gives good head." There were other warning signs that I ignored. He had quite a bulge in his pants whereas I'm pretty small. Her nickname for him was "mister" and she started calling me "tits." She even called me "teeny little weenie" and then said "oops" as if she hadn't meant to call me that. She also said "I love you" to him, but dismissed it telling me that gay men like that. She stopped letting me enter her and insisted that I just do oral on her and said I was like her "girlfriend." Our neighbor started treating us with contempt, and my wife said that she needed to keep being nice to him because she was afraid of what he would do as president. We finally moved out as he was starting to harass us with condo board warning letters. Yesterday we were talking about the neighbor and my wife mentioned that he is actually bisexual and "probably had sex with everyone in the building." I said "Well, I didn't and I assume you didn't -- that's two holdouts." She looked funny and then she said, "Well, not really sex." I asked her to explain. She said that she felt like she had to do whatever he wanted. She said that he would make her walk around naked when she was at his apartment. I was mortified but insisted that she tell me everything. She said that he made her suck him off. He would also finger her to orgasm. She said she was ashamed but so hot all the time from this that she masturbated for hours after she saw him. It drove me crazy to hear all this - it was so completely humiliating. But it was also an incredible turn on. I'm sure glad we don't live there any more.

Truth about my wife and the neighbor comes out Until a year ago we lived in a high rise building. O...

My girlfriend's parents are going through a tough time. Two days ago we were together and we recieved a phone call with her little brother screaming and crying, saying that their parents were fighting. So I drove to their house as fast as I could, and dropped her off. The next day, she tells me her dad told her he wants to get a divorce and take the next three days off of work. I try to comfort her and tell her that everything's gonna be okay and that they're not going to get divorced. She felt a little better, but today we just talked on the phone, and now she tells me that her mom has a lot of bruises on her and some cuts. Her little brother told her that they fought while we were driving to their house. She didn't find out until today. So now I feel helpless and I really want to do something to help. What should I do? Thanks

My girlfriend's parents are going through a tough time. Two days ago we were together and we recieve...

My husband and his ex-girlfriend I'm about to finish about 4 and half years marriage with my husband. We have no kid and we are separated now. We have argued so many times because his ex-girlfriend has kept contacting him and his family, though I asked him and her to change their relationship. They had been together for 10 years, never married but lived and bought a house together. His ex is bipolar and she cheated on him many times. But after breaking up, she suggested to keep them as BFF. They have been friends for about 10 years, but they weren't just friends. According to what the ex said to me, they are like family and very important existences for each other. My husband got dumped by the recent ex-girlfriend after 3 moths because she didn't like the relationship with the old ex. So I'm not only one who cannot accept the relationship. I understand that some people become friends after braking up, though I'm not the type. But what I hate the relationship is what the ex said to me and has done. For example, she made calendars which had her face and her daughter face (she is married another guy and they have kids). She chose my husband as her daughter's gad father. She sent these calendars and when we were about to get married, she asked my husband's mother's address for sending her second baby photos. She also suggested us making our wedding invitations and taking our wedding photos. Because I didn't want her to involve us, I asked my husband if he could ask her to stop behaving like his family. He called her and asked her about it, so I didn't cancel our wedding and we invited only our families to our wedding for avoiding the ex involves. After few months poses, she has started contacting him again. I got upset every time I noticed that, so eventually my husband has started hiding to contact and seeing her from me. The worst part was even though he hid all evidences perfectly, the ex added some photos with tagging him on internet. So I noticed that, then we fought again and again. We moved to a different county because of his relocation, so I hoped we could restart again. But he brought her face's calendars and it seemed she has contacted him. I tried to ignore that. But again, she put some post on her facebook, and even though I don't connect and check her facebook, because I'm connected his family, and the ex tagged his family on facebook post, I saw her post which she connect to his family now. I asked my husband if he could ask her to stop tagging like that and again stop acting like his family. But he didn't listen to me, instead, he called me that I was like a stalker and I'm the crazy one, I'm also mentally sick, etc... He also told me before that I was worse than the ex girlfriend. Although I also said nasty words to him, he is always on her said, and protects her, but blames on me. I have been tired of the situation, and my love to him has been fading, and the stress hurt my health conditions. I went to see some therapists, but both of them said that it didn't seem that I was mentally sick, but because of the situation, I'm very stressed out, and there was a possibility that I might have adjustment disorder. When I thought about him, I realized that there are other things about my husband I didn't feel comfortable, the biggest issue was communication problem. He doesn't talk much except things he is interested. He seems he doesn't care about me unless I tell him (more likely complain). Although the ex's issue seemed big, we also have communication problems. I tried to improve our communications, but I couldn't do it without his effort. Now, I've been separated, and I feel much calm, and if I don't think about my husband, I don't have any stress. Do you think divorcing him is the best choice for me? Or should we go to see marriage therapist before deciding to divorce?

My husband and his ex-girlfriend I'm about to finish about 4 and half years marriage with my husban...