when the bayside family christain church said to me I had to do penance for my part in being abused as a child and this was said by a maori women (assuming one who sees herself as some authority on the matter or vested church disciple of soul authority as some black elder) I figured if they want to play niggar games with me and act as my elders they will be duely told that they are not and I am white and not maori however if so be it that one must do penance and pay their dues to the world and god and all asunder I should think I have done so long ago and might suggest that those niggars look in their own back yard first and stop making false claims about my grandfather as a meal ticket at my expense. its not up to them when I am allowed to marry and have the things I want - otherwise it may have to go to some referendum publicly or something for everyones opinion on the matter!