Both me and my wife are serial Cheaters Both myself and my wife are serial cheaters, but until I ran across the name you guys posted here, I never gave it anything thought at all . Cheating is extremely easy in today's society , men have little feelings except for their immediate family and children . Women are equally bad and have s** numerous times before marriage or before they finish school . for sure they are well experienced in s** . Neither my wife nor myself had cheated in our first 10 years of marriage . My wife resented me making the money , I had an excellent job and she has never had to work . But I had to balance my check book and live within my means . After about 10 years of marriage I discovered my wife had ran up a credit card debt of over 30,000 dollars . And I had to pay it all back . I took all forms of money away from her except our check book . I worked hard for 5 years clearing my name and paying back all those credit card people . I had an affair in my depression and told her . but I also wanted to end the affair . Then i found out she was having an affair also . She hated my control over her life . I decided to have an open marriage and give her pure freedom to spend money and to have affairs . I have not had s** with my wife in over 10 years now , she does not want to have s** with me , even though I am a very handsome health man , and she is equally beautiful and sexy . I go through women easily , so many give up s** like it is nothing special . Women of today do not care . Men are the same way . She lets me know whom she is seeing and how great he is in bed , and I dare not say anything to her . A divorce is expensive and horrible . We do not fight , we sleep in the same room together and see each other naked all the time . Just no s** . I would love to end this insanity , but she is bi-polar and for sure will not stop spending money and having s** with other men . It has no real meaning any more . I am raising my children , we have 3 kids , and putting them through college . If she decides to end her s******* around I will also . She fights back with a vengeance . We do not cheat in front of the children or each other , she simply stays gone for long periods of time with her various lovers , women have no problem s******* any man they like , most of the guys she does they are married men . She does not care . Myself I have much less time than her , and young women begging for s** is on every street corner and bar . We have a family atmosphere, just not in the bed room . So it is an open marriage . I regret starting this entire thing, it is all my fault and I agree with anyone who says I am all wrong . You can not control a Bi-polar person whom is over sexed .