my dads drinking a lot and hugs his cardbord packets and junk bin. what hope is there?

just recently I sent a postal order via registered mail and it got lost so I complained and set up a case internal investigation and then still nothing and I couldn't afford to lose $235.00 in the cheque inside. I then contacted the ombudsmen and then a minister about it and it turned up about a week or two after that so I told them I was thankful for their help, what ever they did and the cheque had come back safe and I could get a refund but only if I had the postal order cheque and the docket and butt of proof of purchase. no one told me earlier I could cancel the money order and I thought it was strange because I thought it would be like at the bank you could put a freeze on it if someone presented it. so this dam cheque was lost of over a month and half with the registered mail envelope and when I went in to get refund she was like "you have to suffer the loss of postage and price of envolope seeing it was not our fault it was sent to the wrong address it was you fault, and I said "well it was your computer that gave the wrong address" I should have just rang the hospital to get the correct address anyway I said "look I am not worried about postage I just want the $240 back thankyou" which they gave back and then yesterday someone from a dept contacted me yesterday and said "No its not good enough that it took them all that time" and he gave me return fees for the postal envelope and postage cost. I never had this problem before but learnt a lesson.

just recently I sent a postal order via registered mail and it got lost so I complained and set up a...

I still wet the bed and I'm 17...

I still wet the bed and I'm 17...

Step Daughter of 12 makes me want to leave and disappear I need help. I feel hopeless and so unhappy. I want to leave my husband. We have been together for 2 years, he has a 13 year old and 12 year old daughter and 18 year old son, i have a 11 year old girl and a son of 15. I am currently Pregnant, a high risk pregnancy. I have had issues with his daughter since the day before our wedding when i over heard her talking to her mother who has not seen her in almost 5 years. I feel uncomfortable in my own home. she makes comments when her dad is not around and gives me dirty looks, when her dad is around she is all sweet as pie. she came to me the other day and told me she is dating a 17 year old. she is 12 I told my husband, the next day he comes to me and tells me she is not and i must stop my s***. I don't know what to do any more. She is also influencing my lil one, to date boys and stuff. I feel so sad all the time and hurt and i will rather just go, because she has her dad confidence she is so sweet and nice, but she evil, i have never ever come across a child like this. She is always on the phone with her mother and she will say mean things about me to her so i can hear. Never when her dad is around. A few weeks ago I spoke to my husband about her dirty looks and thinks she says when he is not around. And he called her into the room, and she started crying and saying she would never so that. Again I made to look evil. She is even turning my daughter against me.

Step Daughter of 12 makes me want to leave and disappear I need help. I feel hopeless and so unhappy...