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A friend from our hometown is visiting my fiancee and I in Seattle this weekend. Let me give context to this story by letting you know that our friend is very well off right now. He alone makes more than my fiancee and I do put together and we consistently have to ask out families for help with rent because our jobs are so low paying. Today, while my guy was at work, our friend decided he wanted to buy him a guitar as a belated Christmas present at a pawn shop. He had no hesitations about dropping over $200 on him. As we were walking back to our apartment we joked about what my expensive Christmas present was going to be. Later, the three of us were wandering around the shops in the area my fiancee works in and I started fawning over a pair of boots I cannot afford. I have lived here for a year and a half and I have yet to have enough savings to buy myself a pair of waterproof shoes of any kind. I lamented with my fiancee over the price for a moment, and then we moved on. In the next shop, our friend offered to buy me a cheap hat for Christmas when I wasn't showing much interest. I neither expected, nor wanted him to offer to buy me the boots, but being offered something I'm not interested in (that is 1/8th of the price of what he got for my fiancee) after just seeing me fawning over $100 boots that I very much want and need hurt me. It felt like a very clear "I like him this much and I like you this much" situation. And now I feel like a selfish golddigger for being so upset about it.

A friend from our hometown is visiting my fiancee and I in Seattle this weekend. Let me give context...

Three Time Cheater So I met this guy through some of my classes. He was really sweet, funny and kind. After a while, we confessed to each other that we had a mutual like. He told me that we would start dating in a month. Two weeks after, he told me we should just be friends and not date. EVER. After another month he comes back and says he still likes me. We agree to try it again and start dating by my birthday. On my birthday, he tells me he has a thing with another girl and that he likes her more than anything or anyone else. However, he blatantly calls me his second choice if things don't work out with her. After another period of time, he comes back and apologizes and swears that he will only like me and no other girl. Me, being the ignorant and forgiving person I am, give him one more chance. Again, after two weeks, I am talking with one of my friends. She happens to be the first girl, not the second one, that he had "dumped" me for. She starts telling me how freaked out she was by my supposed faithful "boyfriend" because he was telling her how beautiful she was and she was the most beautiful girl he had ever seen. He had never told me any of this. When I had checked my phone by that afternoon, he had texted me saying, ONCE AGAIN, that we should just be friends. After some colorful language and some tears, we stopped texting. The next day he didn't come to school, which was the first day he had ever missed that year. I am overall pretty sad, but I am more angry at myself for believing him and trusting him after he had let me down so many times..

Three Time Cheater So I met this guy through some of my classes. He was really sweet, funny and kin...